10 Tips to FORGET YOUR EX
Thought to be the most beautiful and most delightful gifts of life to us, but are they really turning out to be fruitful? The answer to this question is “A Big NO” for maximum of teens in this era.
Relationships can be of many kinds, but the most influencing relationship that is the talk of most of the people today is the relationship between a girl and a boy that is resulting in heart breaks, suicides and much more. Life needs to carry on and each and everyone need to move on accepting all the bitter truths and memories that the past life presents.
Are you looking for something that can really take out from this miserable and unforgettable memories?
Are you finding some ways that can really help you to get out of those memories?
Are you want to leave all the old memories of the past life and want to aim towards a bright future then you are at the right place and this article is only and only for you.
Here are some useful tips that can help you amazingly. Try and implement these tips in your life and look how the world changes around you.
1. TAKE A FIRM DECISION ABOUT FORGETTING HIM/HER
First of all you need to set your mind that whatsoever the situations be, you are not going to remember your ex at any cost. Make a promise to yourself and if possible write it down in your daily diary and read it whenever you are feeling lonesome and missing him/her. This is the most important step that needs to be implemented in your lives if you wish to progress in your lives.
2. DELETE HIS/HER CONTACT NUMBER AND MESSAGES, IF ANY AND CHANGE YOUR CONTACT NUMBER
Once you have made the firm decision to forget your ex, the second most important step is to remove him/her from your phone. This will avoid you from calling him/her. If there are any messages in your inbox sent by your ex, delete them permanently as there is no use of keeping such messages. Reading those messages will hurt you a lot more and never let you forget your ex. If possible change your contact number, don’t leave any option for your ex to contact you in future.
3. DELETE ALL SUCH SONGS FROM YOUR MUSIC LIBRARY THAT REMIND YOU OF YOUR EX
Now the next step is towards updating your music library. You need to delete all such songs that force you to think about your ex. These songs de-moralize you and never let you progress in your lives. Instead replace these songs by some motivational and rocking music.
4. THROW AWAY ALL THE GIFTS AND OTHER STUFFS GIFTED BY YOUR EX
Obviously if you have been in a true relationship, you must be having some sort of gifts presented by your ex to you. Just throw away that stuff or pack it in a box and ask your friends or colleagues to keep them at a place that is not in your reach. One option may be to gift that stuff to some needy and poor people.
5. AIM TOWARDS YOUR GOAL AND FIND A REASON TO LIVE
Each and everyone has some or the other goal in his/ her life. Concentrate towards your goal and put in your best efforts to achieve it. This will help you not to think much about your ex. Find a reason for which you need to live and move on. Always keep that reason and your goal in your mind.
6. KEEP YOURSELF BUSY
The best way to forget someone or not to think about them is to make yourself busy. Indulge yourself into some work like reading books/novels, watching movies, hanging out with friends, helping your parents with their work, playing games, etc. This will not allow you to think about your ex as you won’t get any time to think about them. So keep yourself as much busy as possible.
7. SPEND A QUALITY TIME WITH YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY
Try to spend as much time as possible with your friends and family. Friends are the most important and play a vital role in healing the pain. Believe it or not they are the ones’ who will make the ways simpler for you. Spend time with your family even. Hugging your mom and dad will truly help you reducing the pain and those sorrows you are suffering from. If possible plan out for a vacation with your family and friends.
8. PRACTICE EXERCISES/MEDITATION
Spend an ample amount of time in practicing meditation or other yogic exercises. These exercises and meditation help to reduce stress from your mind and makes your mood fresh and cheerful. You may also join a gymnasium for relieving stress from your mind.
9. FIND TASKS AND WAYS THAT CHEERS YOU UP
Find yourself a work or some other way that refreshes your mood and makes you feel better and happy. Being happy will allow to change your state of mind and relieve the mental stress. Always keep a big smile on your face what so ever the conditions may be.
10. GIVE YOURSELF ANOTHER CHANCE
Believe that if this time it was bad, it was not the worse. Try to give your love life another chance after sometime. Remember that only a boy/girl can replace another boy/girl. Opportunities will always be there. Try to bag them. Look around yourself, you will find much better than you found earlier.
Friends I hope the above article was useful for you people. Always believe in yourself and think positive. You can do it and only you are capable of doing it. Life doesn’t stops if someone moves out of our lives, life needs to carry on. Opportunities always follow failure. Firstly concentrate on your aim and goals and achieve them. Everything happens for a reason, may be your ex never deserved your love and respect, you may be deserving a much better life partner. So never lose hope and try to implement all the above tips in your life and see how the world changes around you..Come out of this sorrow and see a new sun shine, a new day, a new life is waiting for you. A new life is welcoming you.
“ALL THE BEST”